Therapist Tips: Stop Arguing With Yourself and Trust Your New Mindset

Therapist Tips: Stop Arguing With Yourself and Trust Your New Mindset

From Lessons in Self Worth by Carly Ann

April 29, 2026 · 18 min

About this episode

Carly Ann discusses the internal battles faced during mindset changes and provides tools to overcome self-doubt.

Changing your mindset and beginning to think in a new way is not just about learning & repeating the new thoughts. It often comes with an internal battle that no one really talks about, feeling like you are arguing with yourself. In this episode I (Carly Ann) explore what it feels like when you are trying to grow, but your mind keeps arguing with you, doubting you, or pulling you back into old patterns. You might notice two parts of you showing up at the same time. One part wants change and another part does not fully trust it yet. This inner conflict can feel confusing, frustrating, and discouraging, but it is a normal part of building self-esteem and shifting long held beliefs. I also share practical therapist informed tools and self help techniques to help you start calming that internal argument, strengthen new ways of thinking, and build more trust in yourself over time. If you are in the middle of change and it feels hard - save this ep or listen right now Links below: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with Carly Ann⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREE: Self-Worth RESET⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join Newsletter⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Join my Telegram HERE⁠⁠

People in this episode

Host: Carly Ann

Topics covered

  • mindset change
  • self-esteem
  • internal conflict
  • self-help techniques
  • personal growth

Keywords

  • mindset
  • self-worth
  • internal argument
  • self-help
  • personal development

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