263 - Why Losing My Cat Hurt More Than Losing My Dad

263 - Why Losing My Cat Hurt More Than Losing My Dad

June 23, 2026 · 40 min · Episode 263

About this episode

Michelle shares her profound grief over the loss of her cat Charlotte, exploring the complexities of pet loss and its emotional impact.

Grief doesn't disappear, it changes form. After losing her beloved cat Charlotte at nearly 20 years old, Michelle was surprised by just how deeply the loss affected her. While it didn't mirror the grief she experienced after losing her father, it brought its own unique heartbreak and reminded her that pet grief is real, profound, and often misunderstood. In this deeply personal episode, Barb and Michelle explore the reality of pet loss, why grief can resurface in unexpected ways, and how every loss teaches us something new about love, attachment, and letting go. Michelle shares how Charlotte's passing brought waves of sadness she didn't anticipate and why trying to "prepare" for grief doesn't necessarily make it easier when the moment arrives. This conversation is for anyone who has lost a beloved pet, a loved one, or is navigating the complicated emotions that come with loving deeply and saying goodbye. What You'll Take Away: Why pet grief is real grief and why comments like "it's just a pet" can be so hurtful Michelle's experience losing Charlotte and why the loss affected her more than she expected How grief can awaken memories of previous losses without being the same…

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Hosts: Michelle Maros, Barb Schmidt

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