Justin Garcia: “Monogamy is not just one thing.”

About this episode

Meredith interviews Justin Garcia about his book on sex, fidelity, and the dynamics of love and relationships.

Meredith has long been interested in the Kinsey Institute, a place were researchers focus their work on sex and relationships.In this episode, Meredith interviews Kinsey Executive Director Justin Garcia about his new book, “The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love.”Meredith read the book in one sitting.Her conversation with Justin covers many topics including monogamy, emotional intimacy, and how to keep long relationships working.They also discuss the concept of “slow love,” and why younger people think of marriage as the end of a road, as opposed to the beginning.Remember, Love Letters is also an advice column. When you ask a question, you help others wondering the same thing. Email your question to loveletters@boston.com.Sign up for Meredith’s newsletter at Boston.com/meredith. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Host: Meredith

Guest: Justin Garcia

Topics covered

• monogamy
• emotional intimacy
• long relationships
• slow love
• marriage

Keywords

• Kinsey Institute
• The Intimate Animal
• science of sex
• relationships advice

Mentioned in this episode

Products: The Intimate Animal

Books & works: The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love, Love Letters

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