You Are Not Here to Save Anyone: The Real Work

About this episode

This episode discusses the dangers of saviour patterns in relationships and offers practical advice for protecting one's energy.

Many spiritually intelligent people are draining their power because they're trying to help others. They're caught in a saviour pattern that has a spiritual mask around it, leading to misaligned connections where their energy is drained. At worst, people end up in abusive dynamics while trying to help someone who isn't open to receiving that help. True service energises you because there's a flow of energy: you give from your heart, and the recipient is open to receiving what you offer. There's no expectation of specific returns, but there must be receptivity. Serving nourishes your soul, while saving depletes it. Saviour patterns drain our power and peace. Our energy becomes scattered and drained as we try to force outcomes with people who aren't receptive. But this episode offers practical ways to check if you’re in saviour mode, and begin to protect your energy. Mentioned in this episode: The Awakened Masculine Program A 9-week immersive journey into the depths of unleashing your awakened masculine power Healing Your Inner Child A 2.5-hour immersive workshop on why the same patterns keep appearing in your relationships, your work, your finances, and your life, and how to…

People in this episode

Host: Lorin Krenn

Topics covered

• spirituality
• self-help
• energy dynamics
• relationships
• personal growth

Keywords

• saviour pattern
• energy drain
• spiritual service
• receptivity
• personal empowerment

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Awakened Masculine Program, Healing Your Inner Child

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