About this episode

The episode discusses how to talk to children about purity and self-mastery in an authentic way.

There is a need for a crusade of manliness and purity to counteract and nullify the savage work of those who think man is a beast. And that crusade is your work. ~St. Josemaría Escrivá Summary How do you talk to your kids about purity without turning it into a list of rules and constant "no's"? Join us for this conversation with Fr. Carter Griffin about the importance of purity and self-mastery. This episode invites parents to shift the focus to what purity says yes to: love, freedom, and a future built on integrity. We discuss why teens demand authenticity and how sharing your own striving for goodness, with discernment, builds trust instead of hypocrisy. You'll learn how to react when your child falls and create a space for them to speak honestly without fear of shock or shame, especially when mistakes happen. With clarity and compassion, Fr. Griffin challenges parents to invite their children into something greater than themselves, grounded in mercy at every step. The fight for purity is intense, but it is far from hopeless. Key Takeaways Teach your children what they are saying YES to, not just what they need to say NO to. Purity is more than a list of rules, it is saying YES…

People in this episode

Hosts: Mike Hernon, Alicia Hernon

Guest: Fr. Carter Griffin

Topics covered

• purity
• self-mastery
• parenting
• authenticity
• teens
• mercy

Keywords

• purity
• self-mastery
• parenting
• teens
• authenticity
• love
• freedom

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