About this episode

This episode encourages couples to prioritize their relationship and stay connected amidst family life.

Relationships are built with the material of time. Summary Strong marriages don't happen by accident—they require intentional time, attention, and sacrifice. This episode encourages couples to prioritize their relationship above the busyness of family life, stay connected through meaningful communication, and regularly invest in their friendship through date nights and shared experiences. Mike and Alicia highlight the importance of recognizing and responding to each other's needs, guarding against the slow drift apart that can happen over time, and keeping Christ at the center of the marriage through prayer and shared faith. They call couples to be proactive in nurturing their love so their relationship remains a source of strength and stability for the entire family. Key Takeaways Act like you are in love Find common/shared loves Leave the children and invest in each other Take time to connect daily There are ways to make the struggle of marriage easier - physical relationship Couple Discussion Questions When was the last time we had a meaningful, uninterrupted conversation? Do we tend to talk mostly about logistics, or do we make time for deeper connection? What do you enjoy…

People in this episode

Hosts: Mike Hernon, Alicia Hernon

Topics covered

• marriage
• communication
• family life
• spirituality
• relationship building

Keywords

• marriage
• communication
• date nights
• spiritual growth
• relationship advice

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: MFP Mini-Marriage Retreat Guide, MFP Communication in Marriage Guide

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