When Teens Turn to Drugs: What Parents Need to Know - Brenda Zane

About this episode

This episode discusses parenting through teen substance use with insights from Brenda Zane, focusing on emotional factors and the importance of connection.

When a tween or teen experiments with drugs or alcohol, many parents spiral into fear, shame, and self-blame — wondering Where did we go wrong? and What do we do now? In this deeply honest episode of the Mindful Mama Podcast, Hunter Clarke-Fields speaks with Brenda Zane, TEDx speaker, podcast host, and co-founder of Hopestream Community, about parenting through teen substance use — without shame, disengagement, or outdated “rock bottom” thinking. After nearly losing her son to two fentanyl overdoses in three days, Brenda brings both lived experience and evidence-based insight to this conversation. She explains why substance use is often a response to emotional pain, nervous-system overload, or unmet needs — not bad parenting — and why parents remain one of the most powerful protective factors in a child’s recovery. Together, they explore how fear can push parents toward control or avoidance, what actually helps teens open up, and why mindfulness may be one of the most effective prevention tools we have. This episode offers clarity, compassion, and hope for parents who feel scared, exhausted, or alone — and a reminder that connection is never wasted. What You’ll Learn in This…

People in this episode

Host: Hunter Clarke-Fields

Guest: Brenda Zane

Topics covered

• teen substance use
• parenting strategies
• emotional pain
• mindfulness
• communication
• support for parents

Keywords

• substance use
• teens
• parenting
• mindfulness
• communication
• emotional support
• fentanyl
• risk factors

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Hopestream Community, TEDx

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