E36 - (S3E16) Starting a family in academia: a conversation on fears, ambitions and the myth of perfect timing (with Dr Asya Martirosyan)

About this episode

Dr Asya Martirosyan joins Ksenia Volkova Tomaz for a conversation about the challenges of starting a family in academia.

In this honest and beautifully chaotic episode, Dr Asya Martirosyan joins me once again for a vulnerable conversation about starting a family in academia: the fears, ambitions, cultural expectations, and the persistent myth of “perfect timing.” We dive into the pressures placed on women in STEM to excel at everything: building a career, being a present mother, running a household, staying balanced and ambitious… often without any real support or open discussion. We talk about: • fears a...

People in this episode

Host: Ksenia Volkova Tomaz

Guest: Dr Asya Martirosyan

Topics covered

• family in academia
• women in STEM
• cultural expectations
• perfect timing
• work-life balance
• ambitions

Keywords

• family
• academia
• STEM
• women
• career
• motherhood
• cultural expectations
• work-life balance

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