About this episode

Heather Hester explores the impact of online creators on LGBTQ teens and how parents can engage in meaningful conversations about their kids' online influences.

Your kid has a feed full of people they've never met, and some of those people are quietly teaching them what joy looks and feels like. Do you know what they're learning? For LGBTQ teens especially, finding creators online who live and love the way they do can be genuinely life-changing. But not all joy is created equal. The most successful queer creators have discovered something worth understanding: authentic, lasting joy comes from within, and it shows. In this episode, Heather Hester unpacks the psychology behind your kid's online world and what it means for you as a parent or ally. In this episode you'll learn how to: * Understand what queer creators are actually teaching your LGBTQ+ teen about authentic joy and identity * Recognize the difference between performed happiness and genuine self-expression in the content your kid consumes * Start a curiosity-based conversation with your kid about who they follow and why, without judgment or agenda Press play to understand what's really happening in your kid's online world, and how staying curious keeps you connected to what matters most. Hi, I’m Heather Hester , and I’m so glad you’re here! Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed…

People in this episode

Host: Heather Hester

Topics covered

• LGBTQ teens
• online creators
• authentic joy
• identity
• parenting
• social media

Keywords

• LGBTQ
• teens
• social media
• joy
• identity
• parenting
• online creators

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