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Desiree shares her journey of growing up between two mother figures and the lasting impact of her childhood experiences on her identity and relationships.

Two Mothers and Two Mother wounds In this deeply personal and emotional conversation, Desiree shares her journey of growing up between two mother figures, her biological mother and the great-aunt who raised her after she entered the foster system at age five. From early instability, abuse, and emotional parentification to navigating identity, race, and belonging in a predominantly white town, Desiree opens up about the lasting impact of her childhood experiences. Now a licensed professional counselor associate and a mother herself, she reflects on the complexity of forgiveness, the evolution of her relationship with her biological mom, and the boundaries she’s had to build with the family who raised her. This episode explores the “mother wound,” generational trauma, and what it means to break cycles while raising the next generation. With this episode you’ll be able to learn: Growing up with two maternal figures and navigating divided loyalties Entering foster care and being raised by extended family Experiencing instability, abuse, and early emotional responsibility The impact of inconsistent parenting and “walking on eggshells” Over-scheduling as a coping strategy and why it…

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