801. The Text You Read Isn't The Text They Sent

801. The Text You Read Isn't The Text They Sent

April 24, 2026 · 11 min

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Brian Gubernick discusses how our brains misinterpret written communication and offers strategies to reduce conflict.

Ever had a text or email set you off — jaw tight, heart rate up, ready to fire back — only to realize later the person wasn't being confrontational at all? You just read it that way. In this episode, Brian breaks down why our brains misread written communication so often, and what to do about it. He covers the 80% of communication that text strips away, why your brain fills that gap with threat instead of neutrality, and the fundamental attribution error that has you assuming the worst about people who probably meant nothing by it. Plus a simple rule you can start using this week to cut conflict out of your life before it ever starts. If you've ever sent a reply you wished you could take back — this one's for you. -- Get on the list to receive Brian's monthly newsletter: https://nodaysoff.com/subscribe/ Tune in to this podcast every weekday morning for 10 minutes or less as Brian shares lessons and stories about how to make positive changes in your life and business, one day at a time. That's what the "No Days Off" movement is all about. The objective is to spend focused time each day improving in some small way. Each episode presents questions to contemplate, concepts to…

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