About this episode

Carly shares a bizarre update on her dating life, revealing unexpected twists and discussing themes of trust and betrayal in relationships.

Carly thought she’d finally met someone who ticked all the boxes: great chemistry, great dates, hours spent talking on the phone and seemingly all the right things to say. Then she discovered he was sleeping with multiple women. But this week, the story takes an even stranger turn when she finds him back on Tinder… using a completely different name. Now she’s questioning whether she ever really knew who she was dating in the first place. We also hear from a woman whose affair with her married boss spiralled into years of broken promises, pregnancy, heartbreak and her private life being exposed at work; a listener who discovered her ex’s new girlfriend through a Daily Mail article; and a wife questioning the man she married after years of secrets and betrayal. Plus, we talk dating apps, trusting your gut, finding love after divorce and whether you can ever truly know the person you marry. Watch the podcast on YouTube Get a weekly BONUS episode on Patreon : Join Our Community Instagram TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People in this episode

Hosts: Tash Gershfield, Carly Harris

Guest: Carly

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• trust
• betrayal
• affairs
• dating apps

Keywords

• dating update
• Tinder
• affair
• trust issues
• relationship advice

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