About this episode

The episode explores a listener's concerns about her seemingly perfect husband and discusses trust in relationships.

A listener tells us about the growing feeling she can’t ignore… her husband seems like the perfect dad, but she’s convinced something isn’t right. Is she overthinking it, or are the signs pointing to something more? We unpack the story, share our honest advice, and discuss whether trust your instincts or give your partner the benefit of the doubt. Plus, we help a listener improve their dating profile, chat about modern dating, and answer more of your relationship dilemmas and listener stories. If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, doubted your instincts, or wondered if you’re seeing red flags that everyone else is missing, this episode is for you. Watch the podcast on YouTube Get a weekly BONUS episode on Patreon : Join Our Community Instagram TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People in this episode

Hosts: Tash Gershfield, Carly Harris

Topics covered

• relationship trust
• parenting
• dating advice
• red flags
• instincts
• listener stories

Keywords

• cheating
• perfect dad
• relationship dilemmas
• modern dating
• trust instincts

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