Love Bomb Me

About this episode

In this episode, Kim Anami discusses the concept of being nonchalant as a seduction strategy and explores various aspects of dating and attraction.

Apparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.” “I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.” Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating heart. *Woman faints from all the emotions this stirs in her* In this episode: Normalize love bombing The Neil Strauss and Dan Bilzerian “school of dating” for cowards and retards Indifference as a seduction strategy Is it possible to give “the ick” to someone by showing them too much love? Chintzy vs. generous fuckers A woman’s egg choose the sperm it wants—out of millions of options. IT KNOWS. COME TO ANAMI LAND! We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks. Meet high-level, Anami-esque friends and lovers. Looking for more outrageous, wild and brave humans? Find them in Anami Land. Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.

People in this episode

Host: Kim Anami

Topics covered

• seduction strategies
• indifference
• love bombing
• dating
• sexuality

Keywords

• nonchalant
• seduction
• love bombing
• dating strategies
• sexual attraction

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