Narcissists: Everyone's Love to Hate

About this episode

In this episode, Kim Anami discusses the dynamics of narcissistic relationships and the importance of self-responsibility in breaking free from victimhood.

It's always their fault. Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right? In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how blaming someone else is keeping you stuck in a cycle of victimhood and re-traumatization. In this episode: The price for being a victim and not taking radical self-responsibility Scorpions gonna sting. Narcs gonna narc. Do you play with them anyway? Why is there “chemistry” with a narcissist or someone who may not be good for you? Does that mean that all “chemistry” now can’t be trusted? 99.9% of relationships have this flaw The most important juncture in any relationship The reasons why people stay where they know it’s not good for them How to break free and choose better: and choose YOU. COME TO ANAMI LAND! We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the…

People in this episode

Host: Kim Anami

Topics covered

• narcissism
• self-responsibility
• victimhood
• relationships
• healing
• chemistry

Keywords

• narcissist
• trauma
• red flags
• relationships
• self-healing
• victim mentality
• chemistry
• Anami Land

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