Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men

Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men

From Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami by Kim Anami

March 13, 2026 · 23 min · Season 8 · Episode 8

About this episode

This episode discusses the signs of an underf**ked woman and provides guidance for men on how to address her needs.

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.” Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. I’ve got you. In this episode: Signs your woman is underf**ked Which orifice and when? Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. Throat-gasms for the win What to do when your woman nags and belittles you Ideal frequency of sex Ideal duration of sex What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each other Junk food vs. gourmet sex The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn: How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energy Sexual reflexology maps of the genitals My sexual position prescription guide The full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for women Superstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation. The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE…

Topics covered

  • sexual health
  • relationships
  • sexual techniques
  • communication

Keywords

  • underf**ked
  • orifice selection
  • sexual techniques
  • throat-gasms
  • ideal frequency of sex

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