Why You Blame Yourself for Everything

Why You Blame Yourself for Everything

May 12, 2026 · 24 min · Season 2 · Episode 24

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Patrick Teahan explores the impact of childhood trauma on self-blame and introduces the concept of emotional math.

In this episode, Patrick Teahan, MSW, explores the profound impact of growing up in an abusive or neglectful environment, detailing how childhood trauma survivors often struggle with intense self-blame and self-hatred. He introduces the concept of emotional math, moving beyond simple advice to just be kinder to yourself, focusing instead on the deep rooted self-contempt that develops when children lack a healthy adult guide. The episode begins by unpacking a complex dynamic: the development o...

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