How to Parent a Strong Willed Child

How to Parent a Strong Willed Child

September 8, 2026 · 33 min · Season 2 · Episode 71

About this episode

Dr. Shefali and Mary Van Geffen discuss parenting strong willed children and share strategies for nurturing their unique traits.

On today’s episode, Dr. Shefali sits down with international parenting coach Mary Van Geffen, who specializes in helping mothers raise strong willed, or as she calls them, “spicy” children. As the mother of a spirited child herself, Mary understands just how humbling and triggering parenting can be. Dr. Shefali also shares her own experience raising a strong willed child and the lessons she has learned along the way. Together, they discuss why these children often experience bigger emotions, challenge routines and expectations, and require a different approach to parenting. Mary explains how parents can stay calm, kind, and firm while raising confident, resilient children. This conversation will help parents see that a strong willed child is not a problem to fix, but a gift to understand and nurture. If you would like to be a guest on this podcast and receive parenting advice from Dr. Shefali, please go to www.drshefali.com/podcast . You can also email us at team@maiawisdom.com If you’ve ever dreamed of guiding others the way Dr. Shefali does—helping parents heal, awaken, and transform—she can teach you how. Through her Conscious Coaching Institute, you can become a certified…

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Host: Dr. Shefali

Guest: Mary Van Geffen

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Organizations: Conscious Coaching Institute, Maia Wisdom, www.drshefali.com, team@maiawisdom.com

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