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Ross reflects on a coaching conversation about the impact of avoiding disappointment on decision making.

Success doesn't always feel like success. In this Quick Spoon , Ross reflects on a coaching conversation with someone who appeared to have everything going for them: successful, respected and on track for a remarkable career. Yet something wasn't right. As they explored what mattered most, a powerful pattern emerged. Many of their decisions weren't moving them towards what they valued. Instead, they were helping them avoid disappointing other people. It's a trap that many of us fall into, especially when we're caring, conscientious and ambitious. Reflection Question Think about a decision you're currently wrestling with. Are you moving towards something important, or away from someone else's disappointment? People Soup: Real conversations about work, leadership, and being human — grounded in behavioural science, with practical ideas you can actually use. If you’re enjoying People Soup, hit follow so you don’t miss future episodes. Why good leaders go off track - A People Soup special #1 - People Soup Leadership beyond autopilot - The McIntosh ACT Leadership Framework Visit Ross'  Website. Connect with Ross on  LinkedIn People Soup on&nbsp…

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