E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3

About this episode

In this episode, Vanessa and Xander discuss candid topics about women's thoughts on various intimate subjects.

So we're back with Part 3 of What Do Women Really Think About…?, giving you the honest answers women don't always say out loud. From the mental load to mirror selfies, nothing’s off limits. 💛 In this episode, you'll hear: Whether women actually want a "book boyfriend," or if that fantasy is better left on the page? The real deal on mental load: is it running in the background every single day? Cum on the face: hot, not, or total depends? We give you the honest answer. Dick pics and mirror selfies: what reads as sexy vs what gets an instant delete? Blowjobs before a shower: the candid take you've been too shy to ask about. Why women open up to their friends about their sex lives so freely? Getting finished with hands or fingers: thoughtful move, or last-ditch effort? Here's the thing: the questions that feel embarrassing to ask are usually the ones everyone else is secretly wondering too. You're not weird for being curious. You're just paying attention. 🍆 Ready to be the best they've ever had? The Ultimate Foreplay Guides are our step-by-step guides to using your hands and mouth on your partner in ways that will blow their mind. Clear, no-guesswork techniques for fingering…

People in this episode

Hosts: Vanessa Marin, Xander Marin

Topics covered

• women's thoughts
• mental load
• sexuality
• relationships
• communication
• intimacy

Keywords

• book boyfriend
• mental load
• dick pics
• mirror selfies
• blowjobs
• sex lives
• foreplay

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