Can I or We ever Heal from his Trickled Truths, Multiple D-Days and Ongoing Lies?!

About this episode

This episode discusses the painful experience of trickle truth in the context of sexual betrayal and recovery.

Many betrayed partners face the heartbreaking experience of trickle truth—when pieces of the truth about sexual betrayal emerge slowly over time instead of all at once. In this episode (324), we respond to a partner who experienced an initial discovery day involving pornography and prostitution, supported her husband’s recovery efforts, and went through formal disclosure, only to later discover evidence that he had lied during that process. The result was another devastating discovery day tha...

People in this episode

Hosts: Steve Moore, Mark Kastleman

Topics covered

• betrayal
• trickle truth
• disclosure
• recovery
• emotional impact

Keywords

• trickle truth
• sexual betrayal
• discovery day
• recovery efforts
• emotional healing

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