He Turned Me Into Porn . . . Now I Don't Want Sex at All—Is This Normal?!

About this episode

The episode discusses a betrayed partner's sexual aversion following her husband's pornography use and its impact on her mental health.

This episode (327) centers on a betrayed partner who, after uncovering her husband’s secret pornography use, finds herself increasingly sexually averse despite his apparent efforts toward recovery. Her experience is compounded by a history of childhood sexual trauma and objectification, making the betrayal not just painful, but deeply retraumatizing. When her husband admitted to mentally replacing her with pornographic images and even attempting to shape her into those fantasies, it reinforce...

People in this episode

Hosts: Steve Moore, Mark Kastleman

Topics covered

• pornography
• betrayal
• sexual aversion
• childhood trauma
• recovery
• mental health

Keywords

• pornography
• betrayal
• sexual aversion
• childhood trauma
• recovery
• mental health
• objectification

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