Big Days Bruised Feelings

Big Days Bruised Feelings

From Practical(ly) Pastoring by Practically Pastoring

April 13, 2026 · 34 min

About this episode

The hosts discuss the emotional challenges pastors face regarding church attendance and the importance of inviting criticism in a healthy way.

This week on Practical(ly) Pastoring, Andrew, Tim, Delmar, and Jeff tackle two questions straight from the Facebook group, and both of them hit close to home. First, they discuss the sting pastors feel when key families skip their church’s Easter service for the bigger production down the road. Is that just modern church culture, a discipleship issue, a membership issue, or simply one of those wounds pastors have to hand to the Lord? The guys talk honestly about insecurity, church commitment, megachurch envy, Facebook sleuthing, and why relational investment may matter more than confrontation. Then they turn to a second question that may be even harder: how do you actually invite criticism in your church? They unpack how leaders can model humility, create healthy pathways for feedback, separate useful critique from noise, and build a culture where honesty is normal instead of threatening. This episode is brought to you by Church Merch. Whether your church needs t-shirts, hats, pens, name tags, or maybe even a hairnet with your logo on it, they can help. Visit promotionsguy.com/churchmerch and tell them Practical(ly) Pastoring sent you.

People in this episode

Hosts: Andrew, Tim, Delmar, Jeff

Topics covered

  • pastoral insecurity
  • church commitment
  • feedback culture
  • Easter service
  • megachurch envy

Keywords

  • pastors
  • Easter service
  • church culture
  • criticism
  • feedback
  • insecurity
  • megachurch

Sponsors

Church Merch

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Facebook

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