The Big Buddy Plan: What Churches Should Do When Trauma Shows Up on Sunday Morning

The Big Buddy Plan: What Churches Should Do When Trauma Shows Up on Sunday Morning

From Practical(ly) Pastoring by Practically Pastoring

March 9, 2026 · 52 min

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The episode discusses how churches can effectively respond to trauma in children's ministry while ensuring safety and support for families.

Welcome back to Practically Pastoring. Andrew hosts Jeff, Del, Frank, and guest missionary Zach Harrod, serving in Prague, for an episode that is equal parts pastoral weight, practical systems, and classic pastor banter. Question 1, Kids ministry trauma and safety A church leader asks how to care well for an 11-year-old who disclosed abuse (now under investigation by police and CPS) while also protecting other kids and volunteers. The crew talks through trauma-informed ministry, supervision, and wise safeguards that communicate compassion without ignoring safety. Key takeaways Do not create “reactionary policy” for one child. Build trauma-aware practices that serve your whole next-gen ministry. Consider training for children’s and youth volunteers so everyone understands trauma, triggers, and appropriate response. Use a “big buddy” approach: an extra trusted adult in the room who can provide stability, keep eyes on the situation, and help de-escalate without stigmatizing the child. Care for the parents too. Church family means supporting the whole household, not just managing behavior on Sundays. Write an emergency action plan for kids ministry: clear steps for escalation, who…

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