About this episode
The episode explores the emotional distance a dog trainer feels from her pets and discusses compassion fatigue in animal care.
The case of the dog trainer who stopped feeling close to her own dogs. Jane's whole life has been dogs. Doggie daycare, animal rescue, behavior modification, fostering, training — dogs were the place she felt most at home. Which is why Jane is so disturbed by what's happening now. She still takes care of her two dogs. She still loves them. But the feeling is gone. In this episode, Yowei finds a proxy who helps Jane investigate the emotional aftermath of animal caregiving — the burnout, anticipatory grief, and compassion fatigue that can make even love start to feel like another demand. Please note: This story contains a brief mention of suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know may be considering suicide, call or text 988, or text HOME to 741741. Featuring Jen Blough, LPC — therapist, compassion fatigue educator, and author of To Save a Starfish . Learn more at animalwelfarewellness.com. Funding for this story was provided by the University of California, Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, as part of its “Spreading Love Through the Media” initiative, supported by the John Templeton Foundation. Resources on compassion fatigue, pet caregiving, and pet loss: — Compassion…
People in this episode
Host: Yowei Shaw
Guest: Jen Blough
Topics covered
- dog training
- compassion fatigue
- pet caregiving
- mental health
- animal welfare
Keywords
- dog trainer
- compassion fatigue
- pet loss
- mental health
- animal welfare
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: ASPCA, Insight Animal Behavior Services, Cornell
Books & works: To Save a Starfish: A Compassion Fatigue Workbook for the Animal Welfare Warrior
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