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This episode discusses how some women use endurance hunting tactics in relationships and the importance of setting boundaries.

Some women are endurance hunters. They apply steady pressure over time until resistance collapses. In this episode, I discuss how incremental demands can shape power dynamics over time. The solution is simple, but counterintuitive: stop running from her and hold your ground. Draw a boundary and preserve your frame in the face of relationship pressure. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, ”The Value of Others” Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook: https://amzn.to/3YfFwbx Paperback: https://amzn.to/3xQuIFK Buy my book, ”Starry Night” Ebook: https://amzn.to/4qJrh9U Audiobook: https://amzn.to/3LuUJRS Paperback: https://amzn.to/4sGcqOY Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Subscribe to my newsletter: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Social Media TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oriontaraban Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion’s Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQ Thinking of going to grad…

People in this episode

Host: Orion Taraban

Topics covered

• endurance hunting
• power dynamics
• relationship pressure
• boundaries
• incremental demands

Keywords

• endurance hunters
• power dynamics
• relationship pressure
• boundaries
• incremental demands

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: STELLAR

Books & works: The Value of Others, Starry Night

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