Designing Your Own Ritual (Bruce Feiler)

About this episode

Bruce Feiler discusses the importance of reinvented rituals and guides listeners through designing their own.

New York Times–bestselling author Bruce Feiler is back after just a few years with another great one, A Time to Gather: How Ritual Created the World—and How It Can Save Us. Today, he reveals what he’s learned about the rise of reinvented rituals. He shares some incredible stories of people around the world who are creating rituals for all kinds of moments—from celebrating professional and personal milestones to honor walks for organ donors, miscarriage rituals, and Taylor Swift divorce parties. He also guides me through a ritual design class in real time, showing how simple—and powerful—it can be to create a ritual of connection in our own lives. For the show notes, head to my Substack. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Host: Elise Loehnen

Guest: Bruce Feiler

Topics covered

• rituals
• self-improvement
• connection
• personal milestones
• cultural practices

Keywords

• ritual design
• connection
• milestones
• cultural rituals
• self-improvement

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: A Time to Gather: How Ritual Created the World—and How It Can Save Us

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