The Bisexual Man’s Field Guide to Dating Men ft. Mark and Bobby Box

About this episode

A crash course in gay sex and dating for bisexual and gay men featuring insights from sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg.

Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 4 months FREE Surfshark: https://surfshark.com/queercollective Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses. CONTACT BOBBY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bybobbybox/ CONTACT MARK Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark.erenberg/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ensider.mp3/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/disgustingparty/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com 00:00 Intro 01:11 First time with a…

People in this episode

Guests: Bobby Box, Mark Erenberg

Topics covered

• dating
• bisexuality
• gay sex
• confidence
• imposter syndrome
• flirting
• bottoming
• gay panic

Keywords

• queer pleasure
• dating advice
• gay men
• relationships

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Books & works: The Bisexual Man’s Field Guide to Dating Men

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