The Answer to Hitting

The Answer to Hitting

From Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled by JLML Press

June 2, 2026 · 23 min

About this episode

Janet Lansbury provides advice to a parent struggling with her toddler's hitting behavior.

A parent writes that she's struggling with her nearly 2.5-year old's hitting. Her toddler also talks a lot about pushing and hitting her friends "almost as if it's a joke." The parent's various attempts to curb this behavior aren't working, and she's feeling defeated. Meanwhile, the toddler's language is sounding increasingly intense and violent. Janet advises a reframe that's simpler than most parents might expect and applies to many other concerning childhood behaviors as well. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at ⁠⁠NoBadKidsCourse.com⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠JanetLansbury.com⁠⁠. Please support our sponsors! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

People in this episode

Host: Janet Lansbury

Topics covered

  • toddler behavior
  • hitting
  • parenting advice
  • child development
  • communication

Keywords

  • hitting
  • toddler
  • parenting
  • behavior management
  • communication

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: JLML Press, NoBadKidsCourse.com, JanetLansbury.com

Products: No Bad Kids Master Course

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