Savage Love Episode 1022

Savage Love Episode 1022

From Savage Lovecast by Dan Savage

June 9, 2026 · 49 min · Episode 1022

About this episode

Dan Savage discusses complex relationship dynamics involving a trans woman's friend, a gay man's new boyfriend's desires, and a woman's conflicting preferences with her new partner.

A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people? A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips. On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY poly-under-duress memoirs written by men. There is, and we got him! Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey into Non-Monogamy is on to talk about his initial reluctance in dating a woman with a various sexual appetite. He compares his experience to participating in extreme sports. Listen in. A woman is about to meet a new paramour, who will be visiting her for the first time. In their remote conversations, he has made it crystal clear that he enjoys jizzing all over his ladies. She hates the taste of come. It makes her wretch. How can they square their opposing desires? YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A QUESTION. Here's how to ask it. Record it and send it to Q@Savage.Love Or call…

People in this episode

Host: Dan Savage

Guests: Master R, Adam Darrow

Topics covered

  • transgender issues
  • polyamory
  • sexual preferences
  • bondage
  • relationships

Keywords

  • transgender
  • bondage
  • polyamory
  • sexual wellness
  • relationships
  • MAGA
  • sexual preferences

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