Overcoming the Victim Mindset with Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman

Overcoming the Victim Mindset with Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman

August 26, 2026 · 31 min

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Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman discusses overcoming the victim mindset and the importance of developing agency for transformative change.

Psychologist Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman explores the difference between victimhood and victim mindset, explaining why learned helplessness is actually our default state, and how developing agency is the key to transformative change. He discusses vulnerable narcissism, the dangers of excessive accommodation, and why growth requires embracing adversity rather than avoiding discomfort. Plus: why Darth Vader is actually an example of overcoming a victim mindset. Dr. Kaufman’s exploration of the victimhood mindset reveals a central idea of the Perception Box, a framework developed by Elizabeth R. Koch for understanding the forces within us that shape how we see ourselves, relate to others, and move through the world.  Scott Barry Kaufman is a psychologist focused on untapped potential and reframing intelligence. He is a professor of psychology at Columbia University and director of the Center for Human Potential. He has written and edited 11 books, with the most recent being Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset. He has written articles for widely respected publications, including The Atlantic, Scientific American, and Harvard Business Review, and he’s also the host of The…

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Guest: Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman

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Organizations: Columbia University, NYU, University of Pennsylvania, The Atlantic, Scientific American, Harvard Business Review

Books & works: Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, The Psychology Podcast

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