Are You Dating With Intention… or Just Filling Space?

About this episode

In this episode, Lira Ndifon and couples therapist Hassan explore the deeper psychological issues behind modern dating.

Send us Fan Mail Love feels harder than it should. Why? We swipe. We text. We “talk.” We ghost. We try again. But beneath the surface of modern dating lies something much deeper: attachment wounds, social conditioning, trauma, ego, fear — and the unspoken longing to be truly seen. In this powerful and unfiltered episode of Self Reflection Podcast, host Lira Ndifon sits down with couples therapist Hassan (Chop The Counselor) to unpack the psychology behind why so many r...

People in this episode

Host: Lira Ndifon

Guest: Hassan (Chop The Counselor)

Topics covered

• modern dating
• attachment wounds
• social conditioning
• trauma
• ego
• fear
• psychology

Keywords

• dating
• intention
• attachment
• psychology
• relationships
• self reflection
• trauma
• ego
• social conditioning

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