What is Your Sexual Style?
About this episode
Matt Lachman explores the concept of sexual style and how it influences intimacy.
Who are you when you have sex? Most people spend a lot of time thinking about what they do sexually, but very few stop to consider how they show up. In this episode of Sex Here and Now, Matt Lachman, licensed clinical therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, explores the idea of your sexual style: the roles, patterns, and energies you naturally bring into intimacy. Are you a giver or a receiver? Do you tend to lead or follow? Are you a caretaker, performer, people pleaser, explorer, or protector? Matt discusses how these sexual scripts develop over time, why they often become rigid, and how greater flexibility can lead to more satisfying, authentic sexual experiences. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, exploring your sexuality, or simply curious about yourself, this episode will help you reflect on the unconscious patterns shaping your intimate life and invite you to try something new. If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might discover something new about themselves. Resources If you’re looking for a high-quality lubricant that actually enhances the experience instead of distracting from it, I’ve got…
Topics covered
- sexual style
- intimacy
- sexual roles
- self-reflection
- sexual scripts
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