About this episode

Nina Hartley discusses the concept of orgasms, self-exploration, and pleasure in relationships.

Can you actually "give" an orgasm to someone or "make them cum"? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of self-love, partnered play, and the pursuit of ultimate pleasure with the legendary Nina Hartley. As we celebrate Masturbation May, Nina shares her insights on the importance of self-exploration and how it can transform your relationships and overall satisfaction. Here's what you can expect to learn from this juicy conversation: * The surprising truth behind the phrase "giving someone an orgasm" and why Nina prefers "trading" orgasms instead * How to shift your focus from the destination to the journey, and stay present in the moment * Nina's top tips for helping both penis and pussy owners reach new heights of pleasure * The importance of individual agency in sex and what Nina means by "the individual is the smallest unit of sex" * What's new and exciting in Nina's world, including her latest venture, nina.live/nina.com, and how you can work with her As a sex education icon with over four decades of experience, Nina brings a unique blend of clinical expertise, real-world experience, and plainspoken clarity to the conversation. With a background in…

People in this episode

Hosts: Amy Baldwin, April Lampert

Guest: Nina Hartley

Topics covered

• orgasms
• self-love
• pleasure
• sex education
• Masturbation May

Keywords

• orgasm
• self-exploration
• pleasure
• sex education
• Masturbation May

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