Making Friends with Feelings by Sewela Langeni

About this episode

Sewela Langeni discusses her debut children's book that encourages boys to embrace their emotions.

In her debut children’s book, Making Friends with Feelings, Sewela Langeni challenges the societal stereotype that ‘boys don't cry’ through the story of a young boy named Lubabalo. While other children suggest that boys must be tough, Luba learns to listen to Lesedi, his imaginary friend, who encourages him to fully embrace his emotions. By validating sadness and other feelings, Langeni fosters resilience and open communication, teaching young readers, especially boys, that expressing vulnerability is healthy and normal. Sewela reads the story in English and Sepedi. Illustrated by Subi Bosa. Buy it now from New Africa Books · Want to share something with us? · Our podcasts are also available on Spotify · Our podcasts are also available on Apple · Join the Solid Gold Story Time mailing list

People in this episode

Guest: Sewela Langeni

Topics covered

• emotional intelligence
• children's literature
• masculinity
• vulnerability
• friendship

Keywords

• children's book
• emotions
• boys don't cry
• resilience
• imaginary friend

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: New Africa Books

Books & works: Making Friends with Feelings

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