The Hardest Stage of a Comeback (And Why Most People Get Stuck)

About this episode

Toni Thrash discusses the challenges of navigating life decisions after a major change, emphasizing the uncertainty of the 'limbo' stage following divorce or loss.

What happens after the major decision is made? In this second part of my comeback story, I share the reality no one really talks about after divorce and major life change: the quiet weight of realizing every decision now belongs to you. From finances and daily choices to learning how to trust yourself again, this season often feels less dramatic than shock — but far more uncertain. This is what I call limbo: that middle space where the old life is over, but the new one has not fully formed. I...

People in this episode

Host: Toni Thrash

Topics covered

• comeback
• divorce
• life changes
• self-trust
• decision making
• limbo

Keywords

• comeback story
• divorce
• life transitions
• self-discovery
• decision making
• uncertainty
• limbo

More episodes of Start Your Comeback: Rebuilding after Divorce, Empty Nest, and Loss of Spouse

• Stop Apologizing for Your Comeback: Why Women Need to Stop Saying Sorry for Growing · June 11, 2026 · 13 min
• Empty Nesting Isn't the End of Your Story · June 4, 2026 · 11 min
• Why You Cannot Walk Through Transition Alone | Divorce, Empty Nest, Retirement · May 28, 2026 · 14 min
• Thank You for Starting Your Comeback With Me · May 21, 2026 · 7 min
• How to Survive a High-Conflict Divorce Without Losing Yourself or Your Kids | with Lisa Johnson · May 14, 2026 · 46 min
• You’re Not Stuck—You’re On the Bench (How to Start Your Comeback) · May 7, 2026 · 6 min