Jealous Again

Jealous Again

From Tea with Mara by George Beecher

May 23, 2026 · 50 min

About this episode

The episode discusses jealousy, envy, and the emotional complexities surrounding these feelings through a Buddhist lens.

“Jealous Again” is a Dharma talk offered at Mindfulness VR on the topics of jealousy, envy, comparison, chronic illness, and the tenderness that often lives beneath those experiences. We discuss the difference between jealousy and envy, why the mind compares itself to others so naturally, and how suffering deepens when we build identity around those comparisons. We’ll look at the Buddha’s teaching of the “second arrow,” appreciative joy (muditā), and how longing itself is not the problem…bitterness is. This talk is not about pretending difficult emotions don’t exist or trying to spiritually bypass pain. It’s about learning how to hold suffering, grief, longing, and comparison with honesty, compassion, and a softer heart. Enjoy! https://bio.reverendgeorgebeecher.com

People in this episode

Host: George Beecher

Topics covered

  • jealousy
  • envy
  • comparison
  • chronic illness
  • compassion
  • Buddhism
  • mindfulness

Keywords

  • jealousy
  • envy
  • comparison
  • chronic illness
  • Buddhism
  • mindfulness
  • suffering
  • compassion
  • muditā

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Mindfulness VR

Books & works: Buddha's teaching of the 'second arrow'

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