“I Don't Know When To Push and When To Back Off”—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens and Adult Kids Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 264

“I Don't Know When To Push and When To Back Off”—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens and Adult Kids Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 264

June 24, 2026 · 23 min

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In this episode, Jennifer Collins explores the challenges moms face in knowing when to intervene and when to let their teens navigate their own paths.

Have you ever found yourself standing outside your teen’s bedroom door, wondering whether to knock or walk away? Or lying awake at night questioning whether you’re helping too much, not helping enough, or somehow getting it all wrong? In this episode, I’m exploring the tension so many of us moms face as we parent teens and navigate the empty nest: knowing when to step in and when to let go. When your child seems withdrawn, unmotivated, or not quite themselves, how do you respond without letting fear make the decision for you? I’ll unpack why this struggle isn’t really about finding the perfect parenting strategy. It’s about understanding the mindset driving your worry, self-doubt, and urge to control the outcome. I’ll show you how to separate facts from fear, stop overthinking, and make decisions with greater confidence. 💡 Interested in learning more about how to create peace, confidence and connection as you raise and launch your teen? Join me for my next free masterclass:  https://www.thesmalljar.com/class . 💪 Curious about coaching with Small Jar?  Check out our Mom 2.0 coaching programs (including 1:1 and group coaching):  www.thesmalljar.com/Mom-2-0 . ❓ Have…

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