“I'll Know I'm a Good Mom When... (fill in the blank)"—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens and Adult Kids Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 266

“I'll Know I'm a Good Mom When... (fill in the blank)"—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens and Adult Kids Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 266

July 1, 2026 · 24 min

About this episode

This episode explores how mothers often tie their self-worth to their children's success and offers insights on separating identity from their journey.

Have you ever caught yourself waiting for your child's success to finally prove you did motherhood "right"? In this episode, I'm exploring a belief so many moms carry without even realizing it: I'll know I'm a good mom when... my teen makes better choices, my college student is thriving, or my child finally seems happy. It feels like love...but what if it's actually keeping you trapped in anxiety and overthinking every decision you've made? I'll show you why tying your worth to your child's outcomes leaves you feeling powerless, how this mindset quietly shapes your parenting, and what it looks like to separate your identity from their journey. If you're navigating parenting teens, the empty nest, or simply learning the art of letting go, this conversation will help you find more peace, confidence, and freedom in motherhood. 💡 Interested in learning more about how to create peace, confidence and connection as you raise and launch your teen? Join me for my next free masterclass:  https://www.thesmalljar.com/class . 💪 Curious about coaching with Small Jar?  Check out our Mom 2.0 coaching programs (including 1:1 and group coaching):&nbsp…

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