EP 261: When It's Not Working: Troubleshooting

About this episode

This episode serves as a troubleshooting guide for parents dealing with persistent behavioral issues despite efforts in co-regulation and creating felt safety.

You've learned about the nervous system, you're trying to co-regulate, you're thinking about felt safety and connection — and the behavior is still happening! WHY?!?! This episode is a troubleshooting guide for exactly that moment. Instead of going back to the drawing board, we're going deeper into the same map: getting curious about regulation, felt safety, connection, and skills to figure out what the nervous system actually needs. In this episode you'll learn: Why the question is never "wh...

People in this episode

Host: Robyn Gobbel

Topics covered

• nervous system
• co-regulation
• felt safety
• connection
• troubleshooting
• behavior management

Keywords

• nervous system
• co-regulation
• felt safety
• connection
• behavior
• troubleshooting
• parenting
• skills

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