Codependency & Divorce: The Fear, The Anger, and The Way Out of One-Sided Relationships with Michelle Farris on Divorce & Beyond #410

About this episode

The episode discusses codependency in relationships and its impact on divorce, featuring insights from psychotherapist Michelle Farris.

Susan Guthrie welcomes special guest Michelle Farris for a powerful conversation about codependency, the hidden dynamic beneath many struggling relationships. Michelle is a licensed psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management specialist. Together, they explore what codependency really is, why it often begins in childhood, and how it can quietly shape both a marriage and the way a divorce unfolds. Susan and Michelle unpack the patterns of overgiving, overfunctioning, and self-sacrifice that leave so many people depleted and resentful, often without fully understanding why. They also explore why anger can erupt during divorce, how long-standing relationship patterns repeat when left unexamined, and what it takes to begin building boundaries and self-trust moving forward. This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who feels stuck in one-sided relationships, struggles to say no, or wonders why they keep giving more than they receive. It offers an honest, practical look at how recognizing codependency can change not only your divorce, but everything that comes after it. What You’ll Learn Codependency is not about kindness. It is a pattern of overfunctioning…

People in this episode

Host: Susan Guthrie

Guest: Michelle Farris

Topics covered

• codependency
• divorce
• relationships
• anger management
• self-advocacy
• boundaries

Keywords

• codependency
• divorce
• anger
• relationships
• self-trust
• boundaries
• overfunctioning

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Divorce & Beyond

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