273. How to become lucky in your love life

273. How to become lucky in your love life

June 2, 2026 · 16 min

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This episode explores the concept of luck in finding love and how to create opportunities for a successful dating life.

Okay, let's say finding love is 100% all luck. A few weeks ago I shared my take: finding love is proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it. I got a lot of comments that said, "You're wrong, it's just 100% luck." So let's run the thought experiment. If finding love is 100% about luck... what creates the conditions for luck to occur? What even is luck? And how do you become the luckiest version of yourself in your dating life? This week's episode of The Feminist Dating Show shows you exactly how to create the luckiest love life possible, even if you've never been in a relationship before. Inside Episode 273 you'll learn: 💎 Why the story "I'm just not someone love happens to" isn't protecting you. It's shrinking opportunities your dating life. 💎 The two-part formula behind every lucky love story: proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it 💎 How to do the both/and-- hold real frustration or grief about your dating past without letting it become a prediction about your future 💎 What the both/and reframe actually looks like when you've been ghosted, rejected, or disappointed more times than you can count 💎 What creating the…

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