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Episode Spotlight: The Most Anxiety-Relieving Dating Advice
Jun 23, 2026
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275. If I Was Your Dating Coach This Summer, Here's What I'd Tell You to Do
Jun 16, 2026
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274. Three Reasons Finding Love Is More Possible Than You Think
Jun 9, 2026
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273. How to become lucky in your love life
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272. The secret to magnetic dating? Unbothered CEO Energy.
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| 6/23/26 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: The Most Anxiety-Relieving Dating Advice | You know that spiral where you replay a conversation for hours, convinced you said the wrong thing to the wrong person at the wrong time? Lily's got one sentence that ends it. This week's Episode Spotlight revisits the piece of advice that went viral for a reason: you cannot say the wrong thing to the right person. Inside this episode: ✨ The exact moment on a first date Lily talked about her ex for 30 minutes straight, and why it didn't end the relationship (it's the one she's still in, eight years later) ✨ The follow-up nobody talks about: the right person isn't just forgiving, they know how to ask for what they need ✨ Why "minimum viable audience" means you're not for everybody, and that's the relief valve for first-date anxiety ✨ The difference between being a mind-reader and letting someone tell you what they need ✨ How to stop treating dating like there's a secret script you have to get right → Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book → Join the Main Character Dating waitlist: https://datebrazen.com/dating → Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook → Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ → Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen → Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 6/16/26 | ![]() 275. If I Was Your Dating Coach This Summer, Here's What I'd Tell You to Do | If you've never been in a relationship before, or never been in a good one, and you identify with feelings of anxiety, hopelessness, or overwhelm when it comes to dating, and you just feel like it's impossible for you to find love and it's all over. This episode is for you. This is exactly what I would do if I was your dating coach in the next three weeks, so you could build a joyful dating life, attract the best dates of your life, and make the right relationship inevitable this summer. Inside Episode 275: Why "it happens when you least expect it" is actually desire suppression in disguise, and what to do instead How to build your matchmaker protocol: claim your essence-based preferences so you stop settling before you even get to the starting line The vetting questions I used as a professional matchmaker to qualify the right people and disqualify the wrong ones without mind drama Why rejection feels like death (it's biological, not dramatic) and how to build a bounce back plan so it stops running your dating life The Bounce Back protocol: a step-by-step rejection resilience plan you can write in your notes app right now Work with Lily Join the Main Character Dating: https://datebrazen.com/dating Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 6/9/26 | ![]() 274. Three Reasons Finding Love Is More Possible Than You Think | Your brain is convinced it knows how your love story ends. It's gathered all the evidence from your past and decided: this is just how it is. But your brain is not a fortune teller. It's a safety mechanism. And it is working with about 1% of the data. In this episode of The Feminist Dating Show, Lily breaks down three reasons you might just be wrong that finding love is impossible — and why more is possible in your love life than you currently believe. Inside episode 274: Why your brain's "it's never going to happen" narrative is a biological feature, not a fact about your future The math on how many people you haven't met yet — and what that means for your love life How to use the relationships you already have as evidence that more is coming The two things that actually change your timeline: proximity to opportunity and courageous behavior in the face of it Lily's ACK process for rewiring your brain toward possibility when scarcity takes over Work with Lily: Join my free live training, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed: https://datebrazen.com/lets-go Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book Join the Main Character Dating waitlist: https://datebrazen.com/dating Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 6/2/26 | ![]() 273. How to become lucky in your love life | Okay, let's say finding love is 100% all luck. A few weeks ago I shared my take: finding love is proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it. I got a lot of comments that said, "You're wrong, it's just 100% luck." So let's run the thought experiment. If finding love is 100% about luck... what creates the conditions for luck to occur? What even is luck? And how do you become the luckiest version of yourself in your dating life? This week's episode of The Feminist Dating Show shows you exactly how to create the luckiest love life possible, even if you've never been in a relationship before. Inside Episode 273 you'll learn: 💎 Why the story "I'm just not someone love happens to" isn't protecting you. It's shrinking opportunities your dating life. 💎 The two-part formula behind every lucky love story: proximity to opportunity plus courageous behavior in the face of it 💎 How to do the both/and-- hold real frustration or grief about your dating past without letting it become a prediction about your future 💎 What the both/and reframe actually looks like when you've been ghosted, rejected, or disappointed more times than you can count 💎 What creating the conditions for luck looks like in your love life this week Work with Lily: 🔥 Join my free live training, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed: https://datebrazen.com/lets-go 📖 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book ✨ Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook 💜 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ 💜 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen 💜 Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 5/26/26 | ![]() 272. The secret to magnetic dating? Unbothered CEO Energy. | You want dating to feel like something you're in charge of, that is going your way, not something that's happening to you. That shift-- from anxious hustle to magnetic momentum-- is what this episode is about. This week on The Feminist Dating Show, Lily breaks down the three levels of dating energy and exactly how to move from bothered and stressed to unbothered in your love life. Inside episode 272: The three levels of dating energy-- student, bothered CEO, unbothered CEO-- and the specific behaviors that tell you where you actually are right now Why the bothered CEO over-personalizes rejection and outsources decisions (and how to stop) The SOP system that removes anxious decision-making from your dating life entirely How to use jealousy and comparison as a compass pointing toward what you want instead of proof that you're behind The ACK method: a three-step framework for getting back to unbothered when rejection happens 💎 Join my free live training, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed on June 9th, 2026: https://datebrazen.com/lets-go 💎 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book 💎Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook 💎 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ 💎 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen 💎 Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 5/19/26 | ![]() 271. Why now is the BEST time to date | This episode gets into why now is the best time to powerfully date — and why how you show up in your dating life is already changing the rest of your life, whether you realize it or not. Inside this episode: Your brain fears rejection the same way it fears death. That's not a dramatic spiral. It's neurobiology, and understanding it changes how much you let fear stop you. Women are socialized not to want things. Wanting a relationship, for your own pleasure and heart, is already a radical act. The way you do one thing is the way you do everything. Playing small in your dating life is costing you at work, in your friendships, and in how much of your actual life you claim. Powerfully dating isn't grinding through the apps until you're numb. It's owning what you want, knowing your value, and showing up with a strategy. Work with Lily: 🔥 Join my free live training, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed 📖 Get the book, Thank You, More Please ✨ Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide 💜 Follow me on Instagram 💜 Follow me on TikTok 💜 Follow me on YouTube | — | ||||||
| 5/12/26 | ![]() 270. How to Meet People IRL (Even If You're Shy, Anxious, or Starting from Zero) | If you want to meet someone IRL, but the "how" feels like a total mystery.... This episode tells you exactly why it hasn't happened yet and what to do about it. Inside episode 270: → The two things that determine whether you meet people IRL: proximity to opportunity and courageous behavior in the face of it → What joy building is and why it works →What shooting your shot looks like when you're shy, anxious, or starting from zero → The self-assessment and action steps to take this week Work with Lily: 💎 Join my free live training on June 9th 2026, Attract the Right Partner, Zero Experience Needed → Get the book, Thank You, More Please → Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide → Follow me on Instagram → Follow me on TikTok → Follow me on YouTube | — | ||||||
| 5/5/26 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: How to believe the best-case scenario in your dating life | You already know what the worst case scenario looks like. Your brain has mapped it out in extraordinary detail (in its attempt to keep you safe from rejection and vulnerability). This episode is about what happens when you let the best case scenario take up some of that space too. In this episode, Lily walks you through a best case scenario practice designed to open your brain up to possibility to getting exactly what you want-- without forcing you to believe anything you're not ready to believe yet. Inside this episode: Why your brain defaults to worst case scenario thinking and why that habit is not a character flaw The difference between believing something 100% and simply making room for it. You don't have to be fully convinced for it to happen The plan that actually works to believe the best case scenario: "it might not be impossible that..." What your best case scenario sounds like when you say it out loud 💎 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book 💎 Learn more about our high touch group program, Main Character Dating, : https://datebrazen.com/dating 💎 Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook 💎 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ 💎 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen 💎 Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen | — | ||||||
| 4/28/26 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: What to Do at 1am When Your Brain Asks "Will I Die Alone?"✨ | fear of dying aloneshame in relationships+3 | — | Thank You, More PleaseDate Brazen | — | datingfear of loneliness+3 | — | 22m 48s | |
| 4/21/26 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: How to Flirt with Zero Experience✨ | flirtingdating skills+3 | — | Thank You, More Please | — | flirtingconversation starters+3 | — | 21m 21s | |
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| 4/14/26 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: How to Start Dating When You Have Zero Experience✨ | datingrelationships+3 | — | Date BrazenThank You, More Please | — | dating experiencelate bloomers+3 | — | 32m 09s | |
| 4/7/26 | ![]() 269. It's not luck or timing. It's these two things.✨ | dating skillsself-trust+3 | — | Thank You, More Please | — | datingself-trust+4 | — | 13m 47s | |
| 3/31/26 | ![]() 268. Can You Date Men and Still Decenter Men? (yes, here's how)✨ | datingself-centeredness+3 | — | — | — | dating adviceemotional availability+3 | — | 12m 38s | |
| 3/24/26 | ![]() 267. Your Rejection Resilience Plan: The tactical guide to becoming unstoppable in your dating life✨ | rejectiondating resilience+3 | — | Thank You, More Please | — | rejection resiliencedating life+3 | — | 25m 08s | |
| 3/17/26 | ![]() 266. "I'm embarrassed to want partnership after fighting so hard for my independence" live coaching session✨ | partnershipindependence+4 | Cora | — | — | partnershipindependence+5 | — | 1h 01m 46s | |
| 3/10/26 | ![]() 265. "Is it even worth it to try dating?" — When dating doesn't feel like part of your great life (and how to change that)✨ | datingrelationships+4 | Christina | — | — | datinggreat life+5 | — | 55m 27s | |
| 3/3/26 | ![]() 264. How to Flirt When You're Socially Anxious with Flirt Coach Benjamin Camras✨ | flirtingsocial anxiety+3 | Benjamin Camras | — | — | flirtingsocial anxiety+4 | — | 52m 18s | |
| 2/24/26 | ![]() 263. "I can barely open a dating app" Live Coaching Session (and a concrete plan for dating with anxiety)✨ | dating appsanxiety+3 | Kayla | — | — | dating anxietydating apps+3 | — | 1h 04m 12s | |
| 2/17/26 | ![]() 262. "I feel like my picker is broken." live coaching session | This one's for you if dating has started to feel like a hamster wheel of painful experiences… and you keep thinking: I've done so much work on myself—why is this still so hard? In this live session, I coach Quinn through: the loop of type vs. essence-based preferences the fear of being "too much" in dating what to do when uncertainty triggers a full-body spiral how to tell if your "picker is broken"… or if you've been trained to assume you're the problem self-compassion as a real tool (not a pep talk) to re-regulate and come back home to yourself how to update your EBPs so you're not dating someone you have to parent or beg for affection community + dating after a big move By the end, Quinn says it perfectly: this session felt like closing a bunch of tabs in her brain and finally having the system run again. If you've ever been in the mindset of "it's fate or it's me," I want you to hear this. Work with Lily: Read Lily's book: Thank You, More Please Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@datebrazen Follow on TikTok: tiktok.com/@datebrazen Follow on Instagram: instagram.com/datebrazen Explore programs + resources: datebrazen.com | — | ||||||
| 2/10/26 | ![]() 261. "I thought I was too late at 39—and I'm dating with hope now" with my client, Liz | Have you ever wondered if you're "too late" because dating has never worked the way it seems to work for everyone else? My client Liz joined Main Character Dating at 38 having never been in a long-term relationship. She felt behind, alone, and unsure how to even do dating. What shifted for Liz inside Main Character Dating was hope. No more dating shame. And an action plan that helped her move toward the right dates with self-trust and support. In this episode of The Feminist Dating Show, Liz shares how dating went from something she avoided to something that finally felt possible. In this conversation, Liz shares how: Dating went from something she avoided to something that felt possible Community helped her realize she wasn't the only one Structure and feedback helped her interrupt old patterns She started dating with clarity, courage, and direction Her words say it best: dating feels possible now. If you've ever thought "Is it always going to be like this?" — this one's for you. And I also want you to know this: Main Character Dating is open for enrollment right now. This is my year-long group coaching program for anyone who hasn't found a romantic relationship (or the right one), and wants a joyful dating life that makes the right relationship inevitable. 🗓 Doors are open until Monday, Feb 16th. 💖 Learn more and join us here: datebrazen.com/dating No matter what, I know Liz's story will help you feel less alone—and more hopeful about what's possible for you. Work with Lily: Read Lily's book: Thank You, More Please Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@datebrazen Follow on TikTok: tiktok.com/@datebrazen Follow on Instagram: instagram.com/datebrazen Explore programs + resources: datebrazen.com | — | ||||||
| 2/3/26 | ![]() 260. The 10 Rules of Feminist Dating | In this episode, I'm sharing my 10 rules of feminist dating—the principles I know actually lead to an equitable, joyful partnership. No matter your past experience (or lack of experience), your age, or your sexuality, these rules are here to help you magnetize the right partner and feel amazing doing it. These 10 rules are a response to outdated, patriarchal dating advice that teaches you to shrink, self-silence, and settle. I walk through what it means to date as the main character of your life, expect co-creation, stop doing unnecessary emotional labor, question inherited scripts, and reject the idea that you're "too late." This episode is for late bloomers, restarter daters, and anyone who wants to date with power, alignment, and self-trust—without playing games or abandoning themselves along the way. | — | ||||||
| 2/3/26 | ![]() The Feminist Dating Show: Why the podcast name is changing and what comes next | In this episode, I'm sharing a transparent update about the podcast: why I decided to rename it The Feminist Dating Show. I talk through the intention behind the previous name, what I heard from listeners over time, and why I want the podcast name to immediately feel inclusive and clear—especially for people who are new to this work. Feminist dating has always been the value system underneath everything I teach, and this new name reflects that, while still serving the amazing late bloomers and re-entry daters we serve. Nothing about the mission or the content is changing. This show is still for late bloomers, restarter daters, and anyone who's been taught it's too late or too much to find what they want. Let's do this! | — | ||||||
| 12/16/25 | ![]() Episode Spotlight: Holiday dating survival guide | If the holidays bring up nerves about being single — the questions, the pressure, the comparisons — this episode is your Holiday Dating Survival Guide. It's a warm, grounding replay packed with self-compassion, boundaries that protect your peace, and real scripts for handling conversations about your dating life. Inside, Lily shares: how to release the self-judgment we've all internalized from patriarchal socialization (that says that coupled women are "ahead" of single women) why self-compassion is the antidote to self-judgment (and how to practice it daily) three phrases from Dr. Kristin Neff's work to use when you're feeling nervous, jealous, conflicted, or despairing how to identify the desire underneath your fear so you can move forward from a grounded place what to actually say when someone asks, "So… how's your dating life going?" how to use boundaries, a self-care plan, and a joy-building plan to support yourself this season why you don't owe anyone your story — and how to practice unbothered energy how to feel less alone, even if you are the only single person in the room This episode is a reminder that no matter what happened in your love life this year, you are worthy of celebration. You get to take up space. You get to be proud of yourself. You get to feel belonging. ✨ This is the final episode of 2025. The podcast returns in January 2026. 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎧 Listen on Spotify Work with LilyRead Lily's book: Thank You, More PleaseExplore programs + resources: datebrazen.com Follow Lily everywhere: 📺 YouTube Channel 📸 Instagram 📲 Tiktok 🌐 Website | — | ||||||
| 12/9/25 | ![]() 259. From dreams in a drawer to doing the thing: How Laura finally started her business with main character energy | Laura sat on her dream for years. She had already moved abroad, left her marriage, rewritten her book, built a whole new life in a new country… and yet the next thing she actually wanted to build — a business supporting women after divorce — stayed in a drawer. In this conversation, you'll hear exactly how she went from: • paralyzed by fear of judgment • hiding the work she'd been doing for years • waiting to feel "ready" • thinking she "should've figured it out by now" to owning her CEO energy, talking publicly about her work, pitching her idea in real life, and getting her first clients. We break down the exact moment things clicked, the messy middle, and the main character energy skills that helped her finally do the thing. If you've been circling a dream for months, years, or a decade… this episode is going to open something up for you. Work with Lily ✨ Main Character Life Mastermind — Applications open now.A 6-month container where you'll choose your main character project, release people-pleasing, build rock-solid self-trust, and take massive, messy action with a community that has your back. The 10-minute application will increase your main character energy on its own. Apply HERE 📚 Read my book: Thank You, More PleaseA feminist guide to breaking dumb dating rules and finding love. Order HERE Follow Lily everywhere: 📺 YouTube Channel 📸 Instagram 📲 Tiktok 🌐 Website | — | ||||||
| 12/2/25 | ![]() 258. From "I'm So Behind" to Main Character Energy: How Abby got promoted, found community, and attracted her first healthy relationship in her mid-30s | In this episode, Abby shares her late bloomer story with so much honesty and clarity. We talk about what it was like to be in her mid-30s, never having been in a serious relationship, carrying a loud "I'm behind" and "I'm weird" narrative, and feeling totally unsure how to talk about her dating history without spiraling. Abby opens up about moving to a new city, trying to date while feeling embarrassed about her experience, and struggling with the not good enough voice that made her avoid connection. She also shares what shifted for her as she started to process shame, build community, and trust herself enough to take up more space at work, in dating, and in her daily life. Inside this episode, you'll hear: how Abby learned to identify and quiet the "I'm weird" and "I'm behind" voice how belonging helped her stop self-isolating and start connecting what helped her ask for what she wanted (down to "I need 25% more texts") how she advocated for herself at work while doing two jobs how she built friendships, community, and eventually a healthy relationship what she wishes she could tell her past self, who felt so far behind This is a powerful example of what can happen when you stop avoiding your desires and start trusting yourself enough to move toward them. Work with Lily ✨ Join the live training: Stop People-Pleasing and Build a Stupidly Joyful Life live training-- December 3rd: Sign up HERE ✨ Apply to Main Character Life, my 6-month mastermind where Abby did this work — the space to release people-pleasing, build self-trust, advocate for what you want, and go after the life you've been circling for years. Apply HERE ✨ Get my Book — Thank You, More Please, Buy the book + grab your bonus HERE Follow Lily everywhere: 📺 YouTube Channel 📸 Instagram 📲 Tiktok 🌐 Website | — | ||||||
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8 placements across 7 markets.
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8 placements across 7 markets.
