Lying About My Addiction for Decades Then Getting Caught

About this episode

The episode explores the realities of addiction and recovery through the experiences of Chris and Jessica, focusing on the impact of deception in their marriage.

In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into the raw realities of addiction, deception, and recovery as Brandon and Caitlyn sit with Chris and Jessica just weeks after the revelation of Chris’s decades-long pornography addiction. Chris shares his journey through early exposure, secrecy, and lifelong patterns of lying, while Jessica opens up about the heartbreak of discovering hidden truths in their marriage. The conversation highlights how addiction feeds on avoidance, distraction, and unmet emotional needs, not just behaviors. Brandon and Caitlyn provide compassionate, actionable guidance, including screen detox, journaling, and the 4R’s framework, offering couples a raw but hopeful roadmap to confront betrayal, rebuild trust, and reclaim connection. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social…

People in this episode

Hosts: Brandon Doerksen, Caitlyn Doerksen

Guests: Chris, Jessica

Topics covered

• addiction
• deception
• recovery
• marriage
• trust
• emotional needs

Keywords

• addiction
• pornography
• marriage
• betrayal
• trust
• emotional needs
• recovery
• screen detox
• journaling
• 4R's framework

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