We Loved Each Other… but We Weren’t Telling the Truth

About this episode

The episode explores the complexities of honesty and intimacy in marriage through the experiences of a couple dealing with betrayal and the journey to rebuild trust.

In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into the messy, real, and sometimes painful truth behind connection, honesty, and intimacy in marriage. Brandon and Caitlyn sit down with Robert and Bri, a couple grappling with betrayal, disconnection, and the challenge of rebuilding trust while staying present. They explore how distractions, shame, and unmet needs can quietly erode love, and what it takes to bring curiosity, humor, and joy back into everyday life. Listeners hear raw reflections on navigating shame, reclaiming presence, and defining the “best version” of themselves and their marriages. With actionable guidance on aligning actions with values, embracing emotions rather than avoiding them, and reigniting spark and playfulness, this episode is a masterclass in transparent communication and intentional intimacy. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap…

People in this episode

Hosts: Brandon Doerksen, Caitlyn Doerksen

Guests: Robert, Bri

Topics covered

• marriage
• honesty
• intimacy
• trust
• communication
• emotional health

Keywords

• marriage
• trust
• intimacy
• communication
• emotional health
• betrayal
• self-improvement

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