Master Therapist Tori Olds Demonstrates Microskills to Stop Woman in Midlife Crises from Intellectualizing

About this episode

Dr. Jordan Harris discusses therapeutic techniques to help women in midlife crises avoid intellectualizing their emotions.

It’s way too common for therapists to feel confused and frustrated with their model. Many counselors feel like their models work for some but feel hopeless with certain clients. Worst of all is when therapists feel like a "rent-a-friend" instead of a catalyst for change. I’m Dr. Jordan Harris, and I help therapists move from "lost" to "confident" by mastering the meta-skills of clinical excellence. My approach isn't about learning another model—it’s about knowing when and how to use the tools you already have to create deeper, more transformative emotional encounters. In my trainings, we focus on four key pillars: Motivation: Working with (not against) client resistance. Persuasion: Engaging clients so they show up hopeful and ready. Experiencing: Moving past surface-level talk into deep emotional work. Body Language: Reading non-verbal cues for true clinical attunement. 🚀 Take your practice to the next level: Join my 6-month Clinical Excellence Class or attend a Deliberate Practice workshop. 🔗 Learn more and sign up here: Newsletter: https://www.jordanthecounselor.com/subscribe Trainings: https://www.jordanthecounselor.com/clinical-excellence

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Jordan Harris

Guest: Tori Olds

Topics covered

• therapy
• midlife crisis
• clinical excellence
• emotional work
• counseling skills

Keywords

• therapy
• microskills
• midlife crisis
• emotional encounters
• clinical excellence

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