294. The strongest move in your marriage is going first | with Dr. Corey Allan
About this episode
This episode discusses the importance of taking the first step in a marriage to foster growth and intimacy.
When something feels off in your relationship, it's natural to hope your partner will be the one to change first. But waiting often keeps couples stuck in the same painful patterns. Real transformation begins when someone has the courage to take the first step. In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell sits down with marriage therapist and host of Sexy Marriage Radio , Dr. Corey Allan, to explore why taking responsibility for your own growth is one of the most powerful gifts you can give your marriage. Together, they unpack the difference between compromising and honoring your individuality, why our differences can strengthen rather than weaken a relationship, and how authenticity creates deeper intimacy. If you've ever found yourself waiting for your spouse to apologize, communicate differently, or meet your needs before making a change yourself, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that can shift the entire dynamic of your relationship. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why "going first" is an act of strength, not surrender • How focusing on yourself changes the entire relationship dynamic • Why your differences don't have to become points of conflict • The hidden…
People in this episode
Host: Alexandra Stockwell
Guest: Dr. Corey Allan
Topics covered
- marriage
- personal growth
- intimacy
- responsibility
- communication
- authenticity
Keywords
- marriage
- intimacy
- personal growth
- communication
- authenticity
- responsibility
- conflict resolution
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Sexy Marriage Radio
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