# 171: The Invitation They Never Meant - The Psychology of Including People You Secretly Don't Want There

# 171: The Invitation They Never Meant - The Psychology of Including People You Secretly Don't Want There

June 24, 2026 · 16 min · Episode 171

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Dr. Allison Sucamele explores the psychology behind obligatory invitations and the hidden dynamics of social interactions.

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today. Why do people invite someone to a wedding, party, gathering, trip, or celebration when they don't actually want that person there? Why extend an invitation only to seem surprised, uncomfortable, or even disappointed when the person accepts? In this episode, Dr. Allison Sucamele explores the psychology behind obligatory invitations, social expectations, people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, and the hidden dynamics that ofte...

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