Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For

Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For

July 12, 2026 · 1h 12m · Season 5 · Episode 264

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Joy Kong shares her transformative journey of leaving China, overcoming challenges, and building a successful career in medicine.

Some decisions cannot be made with a chart. Joy Kong knows this because she tried. Three days and three nights of careful, logical reasoning, and still she could not talk herself out of what her gut already knew: she needed to leave China and find her own life, even if she could not explain why. What followed was years of fighting. A visa rejection that most people would have taken as a sign to stop. An isolating marriage in a country where she knew almost no one and had no safety net. And a quiet moment on the floor of her apartment, squatting and sobbing, where something in her finally admitted how much pain she had been carrying. Joy did not just survive those years. She built something from them. A medical career. A stem cell academy. A company. A memoir. And a way of seeing the world that holds both the difficulty and the beauty at the same time. What You'll Hear: The three-day decision that changed the entire direction of Joy's life What it felt like to be rejected by the American embassy after 18 months of preparation How she cold-called hotel rooms in Beijing to find her way out The slow, quiet erosion of an isolating marriage, and the moment she knew she had to leave The…

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