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The episode explores the concept of perfectionism as a fear response and provides practical tools to overcome it.

Perfectionism is something more and more people struggle with as the days pass. Today, we dive into how to recognize perfectionism and how you can overcome it through practical tools. Dave and Luke redefine perfectionism, introducing it not as a strength, but as a fear response. They show how it is a learned pattern of self-protection rooted in the fear of being seen as inadequate. The distinction between perfectionism and high standards is one of the most important separations a person can make for both their performance and their wellbeing. Dave and Luke walk through the research on why perfectionism is rising across generations, how it damages relationships and mental health. More often than not, it actually undermines the performance it claims to be protecting. Dave and Luke give five practical tools for separating your sense of worth from your output, along with a story from Dave about perfectionism and what it took to finally move past it. Chapters [Start] Defining Perfectionism: Dave and Luke introduce the idea of perfectionism not as a strength but as a fear-based response. 06:06 The Three Types: A breakdown of the three types of perfectionism and discussing the rise of…

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